Instagram ab social media nahi raha. Wo zamana gaya. Ab jo hai wo kuch zyada hi khatarnak hai – ek digitized kotha jahan sharam ko dafna diya gaya hai aur morality bas ek joke hai. Main dramatic nahi ho raha. Mai bahot time se ye sab notice kr raha hu.
"Get Ready With Me" Ka Nightmare
Chalo shuru karte hain "Get Ready With Me" trend se. Tumne dekha hoga. Teenage girls – matlab actual teenagers, kuch 14-15 saal ki – apne bedrooms mein camera setup karti hain, sabko baahar bhejti hain, aur phir kapde badalte waqt khud ko record karti hain. Trending audio lagati hain, isko "fashion content" bolti hain, aur boom – instant viral content.
Lekin jo baat mai bolna nahi chahta: ye fashion content nahi hai. Ye hai soft porn ek filter ke saath.
Ye ladkiyan bilkul jaanti hain kya kar rahi hain. Unhe pata hai ki jo millions views aa rahe hain wo fashion notes lene wali ladkiyon se nahi aa rahe. Comments dekho in vedios me. Fire emojis ki line. "Thumbnail se aaya hai?" Ye fashion enthusiasts nahi hain. Ye hain men – zyadatar zyada umar ke – jo minors ka content consume kar rahe hain. Aur ladkiyan? Wo views dekh rahi hain. Ek normal post se 50,000 views. GRWM video jahan wo kapde badalti hain? 2-3 million views overnight.
Aur jab tum escape karna chahte ho? Algorithm allow nahi karega. Tech Transparency Project ki studies ne bataya ki "Not Interested" 100 baar mark karne ke baad bhi Instagram similar sexualized content dikhata raha. Ye glitch nahi hai. Ye feature hai. Wo chahte hain ki tum is digital crack ke aadi ho jao kyunki engagement matlab ad revenue, aur unhe farak nahi padta ki engagement kaisi hai. (Mai khud kahta hu business me sahi galt nahi hota sirf profit hota hai, papi pet ka sawal hai bhai morality se nahi bharega but)
Jab Maa Pimp Ban Jaati Hai: "Santoor Mom" Ka Disgrace
Jab tumhe lagta hai ki aur bura nahi ho sakta, tab "Santoor Mom" trend se bottom touch ho gaya. Log literally maa-beta relationship ko sexualize kar rahe hain – jo Indian culture mein sabse sacred (pavitra/pujya) bond hai – likes aur comments ke liye.
Maine millions followers wale accounts dekhe hain jahan maa apne hi teenage bete ke saath provocative content banaati hain. Socho ek second – kya matlab hai iska. Ek maa apne 14 saal ke bete se bolti hai, "Aao yahan, reel bana rahe hain. Aise act karo jaise tum mujhe dekh rahe ho. Nahi, camera ko aise dekho jaise tum shocked ho."
Real Cost: Maine Reddit aur Quora par kai sare anonymous posts padhe hain teenagers ke jo parents ne force kiya is content mein. Ek 16 saal ke ne likha: "Mere dost mujhe screenshots bhejte hain meri maa ke reels ki comments ke. Main school bhi nahi ja sakta bina logon ke jokes sunaye. Maine socha hai ki sab khatam kar du."
Litterally ek bachhe se jiska childhood kitchen appliances ke brand deals ke liye bech diya gaya.
Socho wo bachha kaise feel karega. Tumhare classmates ne tumhari maa ke thirst traps dekhe hain. Teachers ne dekhe hain. Tumhari crush ne dekhe hain. School mein kaise face dikhaoge? Kya hoga jab tum 25 ke ho aur job apply kar rahe ho, aur employer tumhara naam Google karta hai?
Psychological damage thik nahi hota. Child psychologists ne document karna shuru kiya hai cases of severe anxiety, depression, aur identity issues in children ko jo family vlogging aur social media content ke liye exploit kiye gaye. Ye abstract concerns nahi hain – ye real kids hain jinki lives parents ki Instagram fame ke liye destroy ho rahi hain.
Children Ko Target Karne Wali Addiction Machine
Isse har parent ko darana chahiye: Average Indian teenager ab Instagram par roz 4-6 ghante spend karta hai. (bhai koi dudh ka dhula nahi na tum na mai, mai bhi isi khet ki muli hu) Homework par nahi. Sports khelne mein nahi. Real skills banane mein nahi. Bas endless feed scroll karte hain jo unke dopamine systems ko hijack karne ke liye designed hai.
10 saal ke bachhe apne screens se chipke hain 24/7 ye toxic waste consume karte hue. Koi meaningful age verification nahi. Koi effective content filtering nahi. Zero real protection. Bas fake influencers ki endless scroll jo fantasy, filth, aur failure ko success ke roop mein bech rahi/Rahe hain.
Aur Instagram ka algorithm? Ye neutral nahi hai. Frances Haugen, Facebook ki whistleblower, ne internal documents release kiye jo prove karte hain Meta ko pata hai Instagram teenagers ki mental health ko harm karta hai. Unki apni research ne bataya ki 32% teen girls ne kaha Instagram unhe unke bodies ke baare mein worse feel karata hai. Teens ne anxiety aur depression ke increases ke liye Instagram ko blame kiya. [Proof 1: FBarchive - Harvard's searchable repository of Facebook whistleblower documents] [Proof 2: 2021 Facebook leak - Wikipedia]
Meta ko pata tha. Unke paas data tha. Unhone harm dekha. Aur unhone kuch nahi kiya kyunki growth aur engagement children ki wellbeing se zyada matter karti thi.
Underground Economy Jo Koi Baat Nahi Karta
Maine Kuch accounts ko dekha, aur jo mila wo genuinely disturbing tha. "Influencer culture" ke facade ke peeche ek full-blown prostitution business chal raha hai jo plain sight mein operate kar raha hai.
In so-called influencers mein se aadhe ke paas rate cards hain jaise wo restaurant chala rahe hain. 10-minute video call ke ₹2,000. Ek ghante ke ₹4,000. Photo packs ke ₹500-1,500. "Private shows" aur "special requests" ke custom prices. Main speculate nahi kar raha – maine actual price lists dekhe hain jo unke Instagram highlights me hai.
Ye influencers nahi hain. Ye digital sex workers hain jo Instagram ko apna brothel lobby banaye hue hain, aur Meta har baar paisa cut leta hai jab koi Instagram ke payment features se paisa bhejta hai.
Blackmail Ka Trap
Lekin sabse sinister part? Teenage boys ko target karne wale organized scams. Ye exactly kaise kaam karta hai:
24 ghante ke andar blackmail shuru. "Humare paas tumhara video hai. ₹10,000/ ₹20,000/ ₹50,000 or any ammount do warna tumhe follow karne walo sabko bhej denge. Tumhare school, parents, relatives ko tag kar denge."
Ye bachhe parents ko bata nahi sakte. Wo sharminda hain. Darr gaye hain. Toh wo paisa chori karte hain, savings khatm karte hain, doston se udhar lete hain. Aur ye rukta nahi. Ek baar paisa diya, toh wo jaante hain tum darr gaye ho. Demands aati rahti hain. Maine case studies padhe hain jahan boys ne ₹2-3 lakhs months tak pay kiye before finally breaking down.
Ye predatory, organized crime hai jo broad daylight mein ho raha hai. Meta ke paas technology hai isko detect aur stop karne ki – wo terrorist content ko seconds mein identify kar sakte hain – lekin wo isko touch nahi karenge kyunki ye "engagement" hai, aur engagement profit hai.
Dark Humor Ya Bas Darkness?
Phir hai ye "dark humor" ka plague. Valgure edgelords offensive jokes bana rahe hain rape, incest, pedophilia, religion, death, domestic abuse par – kuch bhi engagement ke liye.
Ek reel jisme 126 million views the. Ek "joke" thi ek ladki ke kissing se pregnant ho jaane par. Comments? Thousands of laughing emojis. Log creator ko "queen of dark humor" bol rahe the. Aur profiles dekh kar, at least aadhe commenters 13-16 saal ke the.
Professional comedians dark humor context, intelligence, timing, aur purpose ke saath karte hain. Wo age-restricted venues mein perform karte hain. Wo nuanced arguments banate hain. Ye Instagram clowns bas offensive garbage vomit karte hain kyunki unhe pata hai controversy se views aate hain.
Aur bachhe ye poison consume kar rahe hain sochte hue ki ye normal hai. Jab tum 500 memes dekhte ho domestic violence pe joke karte hue, actual domestic violence kam serious feel hone lagti hai. Jab pedophilia punchline ban jata hai, real horror dilute ho jata hai. Ye psychological conditioning hai jo entertainment ke roop mein pretend ho hai.
Generation Jo Ban Rahi Hain
India ke college professors report karte hain ki students 10 minutes se zyada lectures par focus nahi kar sakte bina phone check kiye. Employers kahte hain entry-level candidates sustained concentration wale tasks complete nahi kar sakte. Average attention span 8 seconds tak gir gaya hai.
Bachhe padhai nahi karna chahte. Real skills nahi banana chahte. Bas viral hona chahte hain. Aur honestly? Hum unhe blame kaise kar sakte ho jab wo dekhte hain 19 saal ke ₹5-10 lakhs mahine mein kama rahe hain thirst traps aur betting app promotions se?
India planet par sabse young country hai. Hamari population ka 65% 35 se kam hai. Ye hamara sabse bada advantage hona chahiye. Hum scientists, athletes, entrepreneurs, aur leaders produce karne chahiye. Iske bajay, hum attention addicts mass-produce kar rahe hain jinki sabse badi achievement 15-second clip par million views hit karna hai.
Socho millions young Indians Instagram par 4-6 ghante daily spend kar rahe hain skills seekhne ya businesses banane ki jagah. Ye har saal billions productive hours waste ho rahe hain. Ye innovation jo kabhi nahi hoti. Ye startups jo kabhi launch nahi hoti. Ye ek generation ka potential jo completely waste ho raha hai.
Ek aur bat China apna khud ka AI develop kar liya hai aur bhi kr raha hai — apni technology aur future banane ke liye. Aur India me log AI ka use kar rahe hain shows ke scenes edit karne me — jaise ‘Taarak Mehta Ka Ooltah Chashmah’ me Babita ko Jethalal ke saath fake kissing scene me dikhana.
Abhi Kya Hona Chahiye
- 1. Government Action: Australia ne abhi legislation pass ki jo 16 se kam umar ke liye social media ban karta hai with penalties up to $50 million for non-compliance. India ko immediately similar laws chahiye. Guidelines nahi. Actual laws jo crippling fines lagaye – ₹100 crores aur zyada platforms par jo minors ko harmful content access karne dete hain.
- 2. Platform Accountability: Instagram ko actual age verification implement karni hogi, sab under-18 accounts ko default private karna hoga with restricted features, minors ko sexualize karne wale accounts ko immediately ban karna hoga (10,000 reports ke baad nahi), aur algorithmically sexual content promote karna completely band karna hoga.
Mere Final Thoughts
Mujhe farak nahi padta tum kuch bhi kro kuch bhi banao kisi ko dikhao sala insta pe p*rn bhi bana ke dal do koi dikkat nahi bas ek bat yrr baccho ko ye sab se dur rakho.